Pregnancy And what Do i think about it.

Since i didnt talk about it publicly via the web..i do talk about it A LOT with my friends..

Every friends knew me well and knew how much i love babies and kids. So when im finally married..the next step is of course to popping out lotsof babies ..

There are lotsof arguments coming from the already married people such as:


1) U just recently married!? Enjoy the living as TWO first and once u gt enough of it..then u can start plan for babies.

2)My dear, you are still young ( I am 28 btw)..Work hard.Get lotsof money and sacrifice your time and put extra effort now when you still got it plenty. When u hahve a baby soon u will find its hard for u to work hard cos you are mentally drained by them and their growing process.

3)I got baby on my 6 months of marriage and since then..we do not have chance to sit down and relax and enjoy the greatness of married couple..we cant go on holiday overseas..we cant go -shopping till we dropping- anymore, i cant even get out from home without stroller and diapers bag..


i  do realized how badly i react to this kind of comments at first..

i was like...

1) u guys are pathetic! God give you happiness and give you baby! When the baby come into your life..God deliver it with rezeki and money happinness will come along the way.SO why do you guys regret having babies at the early part of your married life??


but since they have been through the process first..i now see their points..

i will no longer be bothered whether to have a baby boy first or baby girl first.

Like my wise Mom said---> Anak pertama tak boleh pilih baby boy or baby girl. Bersyukurlah dengan apa apa saja pemberian tuhan.

Mom,i love you. eventho you love along atan,pahan,ayum and adik2 more than me.HAHAHA

so now i want to cherish the moments with my newly wed husband and make mistakes together and learn from it and if babies come along the way...we will just be contented with The Lord gifts.

SMiles!

xoxo